Kid’s These Days

About the Author

Tony Sagar Chiluvuri is a passionate writer whose words come straight from his heart. Renowned for his profound ideology, he is a visionary whose compelling narratives have the power to influence and inspire the world.

 

Parents and their sacrifices

We are all aware of the importance of parents, yet it seems that today’s generation of 

children, teenagers, and young adults sometimes forget this. The love and affection they 

once had for their parents appear to wane as they grow older. Why do some young people 

disrespect their parents by criticising their abilities in life or careers? Where were their eyes, 

ears, and hearts when their parents were with them, giving up everything to care for their 

little flesh and blood?

 

From the moment you were born, your parents have known and cared for you. They made 

you feel safe when you were little and cared for you when you were unable to do anything 

on your own. A mother’s milk satisfied your hunger without you even realizing the toll it 

took on her, and now some interrogate her as if they know more than she does. It’s unfair to 

be irritated by her actions, for which she is not responsible, considering all she has done for 

you.

 

A father’s embrace made you feel secure, even when you didn’t understand the dangers of 

the world. He sacrificed small pleasures and worked tirelessly to ensure you slept soundly. 

Now, some question his abilities, forgetting what he accomplished when you needed him 

most. During your first steps, your parents were your guardians, more than just protectors—

they were your world.

 

As you grow older, it’s crucial to remember and respect the sacrifices your parents made. 

They are more than just figures of authority; they are the foundation upon which you stand 

today. Appreciate their efforts and show them the love and respect they deserve.

 

 

 

Love:

Love is the foundation of the parent-child relationship. From the moment you were born, 

your parents’ love for you has been unwavering. This love manifests in countless ways, from 

the tender care they provided when you were an infant to the emotional support they offer 

as you navigate the complexities of adulthood.

When you were a baby, your parents’ love was evident in every sleepless night they endured. They stayed awake, soothing your cries and ensuring you were comfortable. This love was not just a duty but a profound emotional connection that they cherished. Every smile you gave them was a reward that made every sacrifice worthwhile.

 

As you grew older, their love continued to guide their actions. They encouraged your first 

steps, cheered you on during school events, and comforted you when you were upset. Their 

love was a constant presence, even when you didn’t realize it. It shaped your self-esteem 

and provided you with a sense of security that allowed you to explore the world with 

confidence.

 

However, as children grow into teenagers and young adults, the dynamics of expressing love 

often change. Teenage years are filled with a quest for independence, and this can 

sometimes lead to misunderstandings. What once was seen as loving concern may now be 

perceived as overprotection or intrusion. Despite these challenges, the underlying love 

remains unchanged.

 

Recognizing the depth of your parents’ love requires empathy and understanding. It’s 

important to remember that their actions, even those that seem restrictive, are rooted in a 

desire to protect and support you. Their love is a guiding force that has shaped who you are 

today. Acknowledging and reciprocating this love is essential for maintaining a strong, 

respectful relationship with your parents.

 

Value:

Valuing your parents is about recognizing their worth and appreciating the roles they play in 

your life. It’s easy to take their efforts for granted, especially when they make sacrifices seem 

effortless. However, truly valuing your parents means understanding and acknowledging the 

depth of their contributions.

Consider the countless hours they have invested in your upbringing. From helping with 

homework to attending parent-teacher conferences, your parents have always prioritized 

your education and well-being. They have worked tirelessly to provide you with 

opportunities, often putting their own needs and desires aside. This level of commitment 

deserves recognition and appreciation.

Valuing your parents also means respecting their experiences and wisdom. They have lived 

through challenges and hardships that you might not fully understand. Their advice and guidance come from a place of experience and a desire to see you succeed. It’s important to 

listen to their perspectives, even if you don’t always agree. Respecting their viewpoints 

fosters mutual understanding and strengthens your relationship.

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to become preoccupied with personal ambitions and 

forget to show gratitude. Small gestures, like a simple thank you or spending quality time 

together, can go a long way in showing your parents that you value them. These acts of 

appreciation not only make them feel cherished but also reinforce the bond you share.

Moreover, valuing your parents involves recognizing their individuality. They are not just 

your caregivers; they are individuals with their own dreams, struggles, and identities. 

Acknowledging this helps build a more mature and respectful relationship. It allows for 

deeper connections and mutual respect.

 

Hard Work:

The hard work your parents have put into raising you cannot be overstated. From the 

physical labor of caring for a newborn to the emotional toil of guiding a teenager, their 

efforts are relentless and often unnoticed. Understanding the extent of their hard work is 

crucial in appreciating their sacrifices.

When you were young, your parents juggled multiple responsibilities to ensure you had a 

stable and nurturing environment. They balanced work, household chores, and parenting 

duties with little to no respite. The physical demands of parenting, from late-night feedings 

to early morning school runs, required immense stamina and dedication.

As you entered school, their hard work took on new dimensions. They became your first 

teachers, helping with homework, school projects, and extracurricular activities. This often 

meant sacrificing their own leisure time and working late into the night to ensure you had 

everything you needed. Their commitment to your education was driven by a desire to 

provide you with the best possible future.

The emotional labor involved in parenting is equally demanding. Your parents have been 

your constant source of emotional support, helping you navigate the ups and downs of life. 

They have been there to celebrate your successes and comfort you during your failures. This 

emotional investment is a testament to their unwavering commitment to your well-being.

In addition to their roles as caregivers, many parents also work full-time jobs to provide for 

their families. Balancing professional responsibilities with the demands of parenting is no 

small feat. The stress and exhaustion that come with this dual role are often invisible to their 

children. Recognizing this hard work is essential for appreciating their sacrifices.

 

Sacrifices:

Parental sacrifices are often profound and far-reaching. They encompass everything from 

financial sacrifices to personal dreams and aspirations that are set aside for the sake of their 

children. Understanding these sacrifices can foster a deeper appreciation for your parents.

 

Financial sacrifices are perhaps the most tangible. Raising a child is expensive, and many 

parents go to great lengths to ensure their children have everything they need. This often 

means working long hours, taking on extra jobs, and making tough financial decisions.

Vacations, new clothes, and other luxuries are often foregone to save for your education or 

extracurricular activities.

Personal sacrifices are equally significant. Many parents put their own dreams and 

aspirations on hold to focus on their children. Career opportunities, hobbies, and personal 

goals are often sidelined to ensure they can provide the best for their family. This level of 

selflessness is a profound act of love and dedication.

Parents also sacrifice their time and energy. The hours spent driving you to activities, helping

with homework, and attending school events are hours they could have spent on 

themselves. Their willingness to prioritize your needs over their own is a testament to their 

commitment and love.

Emotional sacrifices are another crucial aspect. Parents often hide their own worries and 

stresses to create a stable environment for their children. They take on the burden of family 

issues, shielding you from adult concerns so you can enjoy a carefree childhood. This 

emotional labor is an often-overlooked sacrifice that deserves recognition.

 

Conclusion:

In conclusion, understanding and appreciating the love, value, hard work, and sacrifices of 

your parents is essential for maintaining a respectful and loving relationship. They have 

shaped your life in countless ways, often at great personal cost. Recognizing their efforts and 

showing gratitude not only honors their sacrifices but also strengthens the bond you share.

 

Note: Think before you challenge them, for one day you may be in their position and your 

children in yours. When you hear the same inquiry or insult from them. You’ll understand 

the value of making your parents cry. They never cry in front of you, but their arrows will 

destroy their health from within. Those who do not have parents or have lost at least one 

will value them. So don’t strive to lose them by your words or behaviour. You cannot imagine 

the misery without them.

 

Quote:

“To understand the depth of a parent’s love, one must look beyond their words and see the 

sacrifices they have silently made for us.”

 

SALUTE TO OUR BELOVED PARENTS